Second, know your budget. Are you willing to spend for everything or is it going to be shared?

Next, who do you invite? A party is never a party without guests and this case is not an exemption. It's best if you can gather most of the Bride's closest friends in surprise since they are the most willing to participate.

Finally, plan the party! Determine the time and venue, plan some games (depending on your theme or concept) and determine the menu.

Here are some Shower Party Ideas perfect in Cebu:

CONSERVATIVE SHOWER PARTIES:

I. Spampering Party: Gather all your friends and have a full day of relaxing hair and body massage, manicure or pedicure of their choice. This can be done either at home or have a place reserved for you such as POSH at BTC, the SPA in Cebu or other spa centers or even book a hotel room.(You can try the junior suite at Montebello Hotel at P5,000 only). You can ask invited friends to order their required services in advance. Prepare some champagne or wine and some pica-pica such as cheese and tacos and get ready. Let them come in their pajamas and get ready for a full day of pure spampering.

II. Memorabilia Party: Dress the house up with pictures of the bride-to-be from before she met her man as well as engagement or dating pictures when she was with her man to be. It is also fun to decorate it with cute and frilly decorations including streamers, plates, cups, napkins that say "girls night out", "last night out" and other bachelorette party sayings. You can also play cool games like The Bride and Groom to be Trivia Game. See who knows the most about the bride and groom by finding out about the bride and groom prior to the party. Questions like "What is the grooms favorite movie?" "What is the brides favorite color?", "Where did the bride and groom meet?" and "How long did the bride and groom date?". This game is really fun for the whole group and gives more information to everyone who does not know the bride and groom compared to some of the other guests. An added decor would be creating a personalized banner for the bride-to-be.  

WILD SHOWER PARTIES:

I. Love a Man's Body Party: This can be done in the house, a hotel room or rent a karaoke room and dress it up with hunks and other fun or kiinky novelty items which would give everybody an idea what this is all about. There are many different hunk type of plates, cups, napkins, posters you can find.  A favorite game is the Pin the Man on the Macho which is a game that sees how accurate the girls are at placing the male anatomy blindfolded. Sure to make everyone laugh! Serve some drinks, ladies' drinks or have a tequilla for a wilder party and prepare ahead of time songs sang by women such as "Girls just wanna have fun", "i will survive" and have a group singing.

II. Dare the Bride Bar-hopping Party: Group the girls together in one place. Serve some drinks, just enough for the Bride to get her on the challenge. List down two challenges in every bar you're going. Some daring challenges for the bride are "Dance with a bald man", "Look for a guy who has same name as your fiance", "Go barefoot on the dancefloor". Some suggested bars are Formo, Loft & AK&7 at the Gallery. If budget is kinda tight you can go to Pipeline, You at Mango One or any Bar of your Choice. After all of the Bar-hopping and challenges never forget to go to the best place for last. Proceed to Vudu and move with the techno beat and shake some booty or weird as it seems going to Pump would be wilder coz nobody really knows or cares about you there. Dance on the ledge and go crazy. A sure shot way for a wild shower party!